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by: Lindsey Fairley
More often than not the word sexuality is confused
with the physical sex act. Your sexual identity is the integration
of your personality, thoughts, feelings, and relationships. Exuding through
our beliefs, attitudes, values and behaviors, it is who we are. Sexuality is
about our whole being, and how we express it has been influenced by our cultural,
spiritual, ethical and moral upbringings. People often have trouble with sexuality
and sexual pleasure in their relationships
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Here are seven great ways to express your own sexuality:
Confidence & Comfort
Be confident in yourself! When you are satisfied
with who you are, you will be a confident lover with your partner. Concentrate
on your positive attributes. Don’t be afraid of any imperfections you
think you may have.
Communicating & Vocabulary
Communication is extremely important! While
conversing with your partner you can discover exactly what it is you can do
to enhance sexual pleasure… and vise versa. When you increase sexual vocabulary
you can increase sexual satisfaction.
Unselfishness
Start by asking your partner what it is that they want.
Listen to and respond to what they would like.
Sincerity
Commit to being a good lover. Don’t
just think you are. There are many things you can do to become a better lover.
Listen to and learn from your partner. Take any ideas into consideration and
don’t be afraid to try new things!
Respect
Respect the wishes of your partner and in
turn, they will respect yours. Do not be forceful and respect their sexual input.
Respecting your partner is a loving act.
Humor & Creativity
Light-hearted sex takes the pressure off.
Use humor as a tool with your partner. Make jokes about the sounds you make
or the poor balance you have. Don’t let sex become a routine experience.
Creativity is simple. New ideas can be a very rewarding part of sex. Use creativity
and spontaneity to liven up your sex life and inspire your partner to do the
same. Try toys, games or even the fruits you love.
In Shape
Both females and males - enhance your orgasms when
you add some spice to your sex life. If you have an idea for a sexual
position try it out. Although fitness doesn’t play the biggest role in
sex, being physically fit can enhance your performance. Good cardio-vascular
exercises can increase your sexual stamina and remember that many sexual positions
require flexibility and strength.
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Copyright © 2005, Lindsey Fairley
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