Chances are you will run into an occasion in life which
requires you to give a toast. Perhaps the event is a wedding, or a
birthday party, or an event recognizing some achievement. With more formal events,
a more formal toast is appropriate, and unless you’re a naturally-gifted
and golden-tongued speaker, you’ll need to do some practicing beforehand
in order to get it right.
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But before practicing it, you’ll have to make up the toast. It might
be funny, or it might be more serious. When I had to create a toast recently,
I turned to the movie, “The Count of Monte Cristo”, in which Jim
Caviziel’s character delivers a gem of a toast to a an adolescent boy
entering adulthood. The toast was so impressive in form and substance that
I not only memorized it, but I also broke it down so I could adapt it to my
own situation.
What I present here is but one way to create your own toast
using certain guidelines that I extracted. The toast itself is comprised
of eight or nine lines, but you should feel free to adapt it to your
own liking.
Before you begin the toast, you will probably want to break
the ice by mentioning something about the person(s) of honor to whom
the toast is directed. Perhaps a memorable story, or some kind remarks,
or a funny anecdote. This story, then, should lead you into and relate to the
toast itself.
The first line of the toast should state a general
observation in life using a metaphor related to the introductory remarks that
you just made. For example, if your story told was about a bride’s
particular love of the roses her groom regularly gave her while they were dating,
you might start the toast with, “Love is a rose”. Or, if you are
toasting someone who will be soon be traveling to a far away country, you might
use, “Life is a long journey.” Or, for an entrepreneurial business
partner, “Success is a vast ocean”. This first line should set the
mood and the theme of the rest of the toast.
The next two lines are inter-related; the
first should convey a benefit or positive aspect related to the metaphor
in line one, and the next line should convey a negative aspect.
So, if I begin with “Life is a long journey” the next two lines
might be “You may be greeted by friends in one town” and the next
might be “only to be scorned by strangers in the next”.
Now that tension has been created, the next line should
reconcile the previous few lines. For example, I might say “But
what traveler gets to his destination without venturing into the unknown?”
The next part of the toast gives encouragement or advice
based on the same theme. It should continue with a line about the honoree(s)
and the future. Using the same theme of a traveler going on a long journey,
I could say, “May you never hesitate to step into that unknown”.
After that, we have two more lines which are interrelated
and give a sense of advice or observation about the world. This part
might be difficult to create, but if you do it correctly it can make all the
difference. An example here might be, “For to take a step outside the
ordinary / Creates a life for you that is nothing less than extraordinary”.
To wrap up the toast, you will want an “epic”
closing which pertains to the public or the world and the honoree(s) of the
toast. The last two lines wrap it up neatly. Concluding the journey-themed
toast, I could say (using a dramatic pause between the lines), “And at
the end of the road of life, may you proudly proclaim to the world / ‘I
lived my life as a Traveler’".
Of course, you should adapt the toast guidelines presented
here to your own needs and situation. Add a line, or subtract a few
as needed. Be sure to plan ahead and spend some serious time thinking about
the lines in your toast and writing them down beforehand.
By following the basic structure of metaphor –
tension – resolution – encouragement, you can probably
develop toasts for all sorts of occasions. But remember that the quality of
your toast will depend also on your word selection, the advice you give, and
your delivery. I also suggest memorizing the toast by heart so it rolls off
your tongue. When dozens or hundreds of people are staring at you, the last
thing you want to do in a moment of expectation is to look like a deer caught
in headlights. As a backup, make sure that you have a written copy with you.
And lastly, have fun with the toast. Standing up in
front of a crowd and trying your best is far better than not having tried at
all.
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Mr. Virnig is a cocktail aficianado and the owner of Cordial-Glasses.com.
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