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by: Rexanne Mancini
There is no doubt that mothers play an all-important leading
role in the lives of their children. They are the obvious heroes of child rearing.
But what about a father's role? Just how important are the dads of the world
compared to the almighty image of mother? My belief is that fathers
play just as important a role as mothers. Different, yes. Possibly
not as nurturing, not as all-sacrificing but just as important in the developmental
and emotional well being of a child.
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Dads are the solid foundation of our lives.
They are the shore we swim to when our arms and legs feel increasingly tired.
They are the strength we rely on as we take our first tentative steps into the
world. Dads can be tender, tough, fragile or powerful but they are probably
the most uncomplicated love we will ever know.
For daughters, Daddy is the first man they adore
... the first man whose eyes shine with overwhelming amazement when they look
at us. He is the first man to fall in love with us.
For sons, Daddy is the idol they first aspire to emulate
... their mirror image of what will be and possibly the only man they
will ever feel comfortable loving.
Daddy is the first man who held us, as a loving
parent, with a lump in his throat so huge, only the joy of that love could erase
the overwhelming pain of choking on unexpected raw emotion. I think when a father
holds his newborn baby, he is touched by pure vulnerability for the first time
in his adult life, leaving him forever humbled by the unexplained miracles of
life.
For mothers, the father of our children is the one
person we can trust to watch over our babies as closely as we would.
We are secure in the knowledge of their love for our precious offspring. Dad
is the only other person in the world as fascinated with every nuance and murmur
of our babies. He is the one person on the planet with whom we can indulge our
need to brag and carry on about our kid's accomplishments and heartaches ad
nauseum ... one who will be just as interested and never yawn in the face of
our devotion.
Without dads, we wouldn't be moms. I would
like to take the liberty of thanking them from all our hearts for this honor
and for being our partners in this business of raising children.
Know how much you are loved and revered, guys! You
are our trusted soldiers and we need you more than you will ever realize.
Other articles you may find interesting:
Rexanne Mancini is the mother of two daughters, Justice
and Liberty. She is a novelist, freelance writer and maintains an extensive
yet informal parenting and family web site, Rexanne.com – www.rexanne.com
- Visit her site for good advice, award-winning Internet holiday pages and
some humor to help you cope. Subscribe to her free newsletter, Rexanne’s
Web Review, for a monthly dose of Rexanne: www.rexanne.com/rwr-archives.html
- email: rexanne@rexanne.com

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